To be honest, we all engage culture at some level. There isn’t a person in the world that has never engaged culture. We speak a certain language - that is culture. You eat certain foods - that is culture. You wear a certain type of shoes - that is culture. So we all engage culture in some aspect, but do we engage the culture when it counts for the Lord? You wouldn’t send your (hypothetical) Jr. High boy to the Philippines for a year long mission trip. At least I hope you wouldn’t. You also wouldn’t or at least shouldn’t keep that same boy, who is now out of college and studied on missions and the Philippine culture, from going there. He is now prepared and ready to go. Just as Rocky put it in his comment,
“While I might venture into a crack house to evangelize someone there (and of course not participate in the evil), I certainly wouldn't send my innocent pre-teen daughter to the same place. That same daughter though, after growing up and (maybe) becoming a, oh doctor say, I might encourage to do the same if so led by the Holy Spirit.”So we have to discern if engaging a certain part of culture is something the Spirit is leading us to do, and if it is, then we do it. Because each person is different on spiritual maturity, each of us is going to have different degrees of engagement to the culture. But if we don’t engage past the talk, food and shoes, we will be missing out on opportunities that God has put before us. Remember what the Apostle Paul told us in 1 Corinthians 9:
19 “For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them. 20 To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though not being myself under the law) that I might win those under the law. 21 To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (not being outside the law of God but under the law of Christ) that I might win those outside the law. 22 To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. 23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.”
Paul’s goal was to save those who were lost, which should be our goal as well. If we don’t associate ourselves with the lost at some level, we will never be able to save them (of course, it is God who does the saving, not us, but I am using Paul’s words). Even though Paul is more mature than us in his faith, that doesn’t give us an excuse to not become something to someone so we can at least share the Gospel with them.
Let me know what you think about this. I would still like to see your insight, which I appreciate so much as I seek to minister to the youth in this generation as God would lead me.